Tuesday, November 22, 2016

12.2016 The Big Short

Introduction:

Yay, a Michael Lewis book that was turned into a movie. Boo, financial crisis.

Overview:

The real story of the financial crash and a few smart people who short the market, betting against highly-rated mortgage-backed securities by creating credit default swaps and profiting big time.

Book Details:

Paperback: 291 pages
Publisher: W. W. Norton & Company; Reprint edition (February 1, 2011)
ISBN-10: 0393338827
ISBN-13: 978-0393338829

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Monday, November 21, 2016

Everything I Never Told You

Book Club #14.
Lesson: Parenting is hard.

About the Book:

Everything I Never Told You by Celeste Ng

Summary: 

A mixed race family of five live a seemingly normal life until the star middle child is found dead. The story jumps back and forth between history and present-day, between thoughts and experiences of each family member, and reveals many attitudes, perspectives, and misunderstandings. Each family member must come to terms with the reality of the death of Lydia and the realization that they may not have truly known and understood her.

Characters:

  • Lydia Lee
  • Marilyn Lee - mother
  • James Lee - father
  • Nathan Lee - older brother
  • Hannah Lee - little sister
  • Jack

Questions:

1. Lydia often went to great lengths to please her parents. Do you remember some of the things you did to meet your parents' expectations?
2. Do you think Hannah's experience as the invisible youngest sibling is typical? Why or why not?
3. Do you think that Lydia ultimately committed suicide or was it an accident?
4. Do you think the things the characters in the book would have wanted to say the things that were left unsaid?
5. Which character(s) did you most relate to?
6. Did you like the structure of jumping back and forth in time? Were you able to keep up?
7. Many characters seemed to be misunderstood by friends, neighbors and family members. Were there times in your life where people have a very misguided impression of you or where you misunderstood someone else?
8. Parents often see themselves in their children and place their own hopes and fears on them. How was this done in the book? Were there things your parents said/did that spoke more to their attitudes/interests versus your personal interests?
9. Lydia seemed to be viewed as the star child in the family - there is often debate about how to motivate children and how much attention and focus should be placed on children and academic success. Any thoughts or future plans on how to deal with these issues if you are a parent?

Conversation Summary:

Discussion topics:
  • Book structure, audio/physical book
  • Relating to difference characters
  • Struggles/differences in mixed culture relationships
  • Family pressure and expectations
  • Parenting - what is the best way to raise children, academic pressure, parents trying to make up for personal mistakes/goals
  • Character success
  • Differences between siblings
  • How did Lydia die, purpose/accidental

3/3 bears liked this book

References:

Friday, November 4, 2016

11.2016 Everything I Never Told You

Introduction:

Yay, an Asian writer.

Overview:

"Lydia is dead. But they don’t know this yet . . . So begins the story of this exquisite debut novel, about a Chinese American family living in 1970s small-town Ohio. Lydia is the favorite child of Marilyn and James Lee; their middle daughter, a girl who inherited her mother’s bright blue eyes and her father’s jet-black hair. Her parents are determined that Lydia will fulfill the dreams they were unable to pursue—in Marilyn’s case that her daughter become a doctor rather than a homemaker, in James’s case that Lydia be popular at school, a girl with a busy social life and the center of every party.

When Lydia’s body is found in the local lake, the delicate balancing act that has been keeping the Lee family together tumbles into chaos, forcing them to confront the long-kept secrets that have been slowly pulling them apart. James, consumed by guilt, sets out on a reckless path that may destroy his marriage. Marilyn, devastated and vengeful, is determined to find a responsible party, no matter what the cost. Lydia’s older brother, Nathan, is certain that the neighborhood bad boy Jack is somehow involved. But it’s the youngest of the family—Hannah—who observes far more than anyone realizes and who may be the only one who knows the truth about what happened.

A profoundly moving story of family, history, and the meaning of home, Everything I Never Told You is both a gripping page-turner and a sensitive family portrait, exploring the divisions between cultures and the rifts within a family, and uncovering the ways in which mothers and daughters, fathers and sons, and husbands and wives struggle, all their lives, to understand one another."

Book Details:

Paperback: 304 pages
Publisher: Penguin Press; First Edition, First Printing edition (June 26, 2014)
ISBN-10: 159420571X
ISBN-13: 978-1594205712
Awards: Alex Awards

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Boys Adrift

Book Club #13.
Lesson: Homeschool. Let's do it.

About the Book:

Boys Adrift by Leonard Sax

 Summary: 

Leonard Sax is a psychologist who sees a number of factors contributing to a trend of underachieving boys and men in our current society. Factors range from changes in our current education system, role models, coed education, video games, plastics, etc. Controversial and a great source of debate, readers will be all over the place on this subject.

Characters:

  • Leonard Sax
  • various children and parents

Questions:

1. Do you notice a trend in unmotivated boys/men? Do you think it's true?
2. Which factor(s) do you most agree with?
3. Did anything surprise you?
4. If you had a son is there anything in particular you would do after reading this book?
5. Do you agree that schools are becoming more feminized? 
6. Do you believe that kids need to be in a co-ed educational environment?
7. Has this changed the way that you think the world socializes little people?

Conversation Summary:

Discussion topics:
  • Is there a trend in boys/children that is different than previous generations
  • Agree/disagree with book factors and observations
  • Education system and homeschooling
  • Experience with young children
  • Difference between boys and girls - personality, learning, development
  • Training animals and children

3/3 bears finished book

References:

1. Diane Rehm Interview: Dr. Leonard Sax: “Boys Adrift”
http://thedianerehmshow.org/shows/2007-08-14/dr-leonard-sax-boys-adrift-basic-books

2. America’s ‘quiet catastrophe’: Millions of idle men
https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/americas-quiet-catastrophe-millions-of-idle-men/2016/10/05/cd01b750-8a57-11e6-bff0-d53f592f176e_story.html?utm_term=.fa220cfd710d

3. TED talks: How masculinity is evolving

Thursday, August 25, 2016

10.2016 Boys Adrift

Introduction:

Last month we briefly touched upon child development as Jack spent the first 5 years of his life living in Room. This month we delve further into the area of boyhood development and disturbing trends seen in this demographic.

Overview:

"Something scary is happening to boys today. From kindergarten to college, they’re less resilient and less ambitious than they were a mere twenty years ago. In fact, a third of men ages 22–34 are still living at home with their parents—about a 100 percent increase in the past twenty years. Parents, teachers, and mental health professionals are worried about boys. But until now, no one has come up with good reasons for their decline—nor, more important, with workable solutions to reverse this troubling trend. 

In Boys Adrift, family physician and research psychologist Leonard Sax tackles the problem head on, drawing on the very latest research and his vast experience with boys and their families. He argues that a combination of social and biological factors is creating an environment that is literally toxic to boys. Misguided overemphasis on reading and math as early as kindergarten, too much time spent playing video games, over-reliance on medication for attention deficit disorders (much more common in boys than in girls), and overlooked endocrine disturbances are actually causing damage to boys’ brains. 

Dr. Sax offers a wide range of reassuring remedies— including innovative ways parents can wean their sons away from video games, practical steps they can take to improve their sons’ schooling, and surprisingly simple life changes they can make to protect boys from the environmental estrogens that undermine boys’ motivation. 

Filled with moving success stories that will inspire parents and teachers everywhere, Boys Adrift points the way to a new future for today’s boys and young men."

Book Details:

Paperback: 288 pages
Publisher: Basic Books; Reprint edition (January 6, 2009)
ISBN-10: 0465072100
ISBN-13: 978-0465072101

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Tuesday, August 23, 2016

Room

Book Club #12.
Lesson: If a man asks you to help him with a dog and you can't see the dog, don't follow him into his truck

About the Book:

Room

 

 Summary: 

Ma was kidnapped when she was 19 where she had a young boy named Jack. She raises him in Room, isolated from the real world spending each day following a schedule and hiding from Old Nick. When Jack turns 5, his mother decides he is old enough to learn the truth about her capture and Old Nick's identity as her captor and try to escape. Tv world is suddenly an actual real world outside of room. While Ma's memories of the real world gave her hope through the years and her stories of a much bigger world Jack has never experienced sound wonderful, Jack and Ma must adapt to their new reality. Jack is like an alien unable to comprehend social norms and his mother must realize how the world has changed during her time away and confront how the world view them.

 

Characters:

  • Ma
  • Jack
  • Old Nick
  • Ma's family members
  • Doctors, Nurses, and Staff
  • Police
  • Media

Questions:

1. What did you think of the authors choice to use the boys point of view- how would it be different if it was from another character (mother, object, etc)?
2. Who did you relate the most to?
3. What would you have done similar or different if you were in the same circumstance as the mother?
4. If you saw the movie how was it similar or different from the book?
5. How do you think the experience may affect Jack in the future?
6. Was there anything from your childhood that you may remember different than a family member or realize later was different than what you originally thought?
7. What did you think about how the boy used English? He would say things like "double more chocolatier" or say "big" instead of "size." 
8. What do you think of Jack getting a dog named Lucky? How do you think it would impact his life?
9. Jack begins to discover the nuances of things in the real world, e.g., fire departments are not TV but real. But even in the real world, they are sometimes for play. Do you remember doing this, or have you talked to kids who have taken things literally?
10. Do you think Ma regrets or feels guilty about not putting him up for adoption?
11. What did you like most about the book?
 

Conversation Summary:

Discussion topics:
  • What we would have done in Ma's predicament
  • Book realistic in terms of portraying young boy in captivity/media
  • Author's inspiration
  • Movie versus book
  • Most related to frustrated people characters
  • Childhood memories
  • Plato's cave analogy/differing versions of reality
  • Gender identity development
  • Adapting to social norms/unwritten norms
  • Travel and experiencing different ways of living

2/3 bears finished book and 1/3 saw movie

References:

1. Room: the movie
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt3170832/

Wednesday, August 10, 2016

08.2016 Room

Introduction:

Back to fiction we go. This book is now a major motion picture and winner of best actress. A story of a mother and son and the beauty of their relationship and the world they build together despite harrowing circumstances.

Overview:

"To five-year-old-Jack, Room is the world. . . . It's where he was born, it's where he and his Ma eat and sleep and play and learn. At night, his Ma shuts him safely in the wardrobe, where he is meant to be asleep when Old Nick visits.

Room is home to Jack, but to Ma it's the prison where she has been held for seven years. Through her fierce love for her son, she has created a life for him in this eleven-by-eleven-foot space. But with Jack's curiosity building alongside her own desperation, she knows that Room cannot contain either much longer.

Room is a tale at once shocking, riveting, exhilarating--a story of unconquerable love in harrowing circumstances, and of the diamond-hard bond between a mother and her child."

Book Details:

Paperback: 384 pages
Publisher: Little, Brown and Company; Reprint edition (September 25, 2012)
ISBN-10: 0316223239
ISBN-13: 978-0316223232

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Dead Wake: The Last Crossing of the Lusitania

Book Club #11.
Lesson: No ship is unsinkable.

About the Book:

Dead Wake: The Last Crossing of the Lusitania

 

 Summary: 

A large passenger ship, the Lusitania, is sunk by a German submarine. This highlights a historical moment in which the previous rules of war are broken, civilians are no longer safe and the power of the German U-boat is displayed. Warships and large cruise liners are quickly sunk.

 

Characters:

  • Cerman U-boat Captain
  • Various Lusitania passengers

Questions:

1. Which character did you relate to the most?
2. How important is it to use primary sources when writing a nonfiction? Do you care as a reader about what kind of research the author performed in preparing for a book?
3. What did you know about the Lusitania prior to reading this book and what new I formation surprised you?
4. What did you find captivating about the writing style of the author, and what would you have liked to be different?
5. Do you think that the US should have jumped into the war earlier? How might things have turned out differently?
6. What did you think about this perception of unsinkable ships during that era? Would you have taken the trip?
 

Conversation Summary:

Discussion topics:
  • previous knowledge about Lusitania, WWII, Uboats
  • Larson writing style - lots of detail
  • How much detail should be included
  • Progression of storyline
  • Researching for non-fiction books

1/3 bears finished book and 0/3 loved it
guess we should go back to fiction

References:

1. Erik Larson Google Talk, 4/28/2015
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oRJ96wAa40A

Sunday, February 28, 2016

03.2016 Dead Wake: The Last Crossing of the Lusitania

Introduction:

Our first Erik Larson book. Though the books are based on true history they may read like a suspenseful thriller. The events we may have read in a few sentences from a high school textbook are expounded, elaborated, and described in the full richness of that the particular event deserves. Game changing moments in a war or country's history are not simply a date and facts but a setting of an amazing tale.

Overview:

On May 1, 1915, with WWI entering its tenth month, a luxury ocean liner as richly appointed as an English country house sailed out of New York, bound for Liverpool, carrying a record number of children and infants. The passengers were surprisingly at ease, even though Germany had declared the seas around Britain to be a war zone. For months, German U-boats had brought terror to the North Atlantic. But the Lusitania was one of the era’s great transatlantic “Greyhounds”—the fastest liner then in service—and her captain, William Thomas Turner, placed tremendous faith in the gentlemanly strictures of warfare that for a century had kept civilian ships safe from attack.

Germany, however, was determined to change the rules of the game, and Walther Schwieger, the captain of Unterseeboot-20, was happy to oblige. Meanwhile, an ultra-secret British intelligence unit tracked Schwieger’s U-boat, but told no one. As U-20 and the Lusitania made their way toward Liverpool, an array of forces both grand and achingly small—hubris, a chance fog, a closely guarded secret, and more—all converged to produce one of the great disasters of history.

It is a story that many of us think we know but don’t, and Erik Larson tells it thrillingly, switching between hunter and hunted while painting a larger portrait of America at the height of the Progressive Era. Full of glamour and suspense, Dead Wake brings to life a cast of evocative characters, from famed Boston bookseller Charles Lauriat to pioneering female architect Theodate Pope to President Woodrow Wilson, a man lost to grief, dreading the widening war but also captivated by the prospect of new love.

Book Details:

Paperback: 430 pages
Publisher: Crown Publishers; 1st edition (March 10, 2015)
ISBN-10: 0307408868
ISBN-13: 978-0307408860

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Go Set A Watchman

Book Club #10.

About the Book:

Go Set a Watchman

 

 Summary: 

Twenty-six-year-old Jean Louise Finch—"Scout"—returns home from New York City to Maycomb, Alabama to visit her aging father, Atticus. During a time of civil rights tension, new realizations found put her assumptions about her hometown and family members into doubt.

 

Characters:

  • Jean Louise "Scout" Finch
  • Atticus
  • Jeremy ‘Jem’ Finch
  • Aunt Alexandra
  • Henry ‘Hank’ Clinton
  • Joshua Singleton St. Clair
  • Colonel Maycomb

Questions:

1. Where do you consider your hometown? When you go back how are things different or the same?

2. When have you not seen eye to eye with your parents? Was it resolved or did you agree to disagree?

3. When have you had to be a part of a group whose ideology you did not agree with? Did you learn anything from the experience?
4. Scout goes back to her hometown from New York. What did you think of Harper Lee's portrayal of her reaction and thoughts about being back? Have you been to a reunion after many years and had similar or different thoughts?

5. Scout has a bunch of flashbacks of very relatable growing up experiences, like finding out where babies come from and her big school dance. Did you like this sandwiching of past experiences in the current narrative?

6. The publishing of Harper Lee's second book was controversial. How do you think this second book affected her legacy? Did you enjoy it or find it interesting?
 

Conversation Summary:

Discussion topics:
  • suspicions this may have been Harper Lee's first draft of TKAMB
  • hometowns
  • where would you want to live?
  • differing ideologies
  • flashback, narrative styles
  • the book was written for the ending

3/3 bears finished book and 3/3 loved it

References:

1. RIP Harper Lee 1926-2016
http://www.nytimes.com/video/obituaries/100000004221331/harper-lee-1926-2016.html?rref=collection%2Ftimestopic%2FLee%2C%20Harper&action=click&contentCollection=timestopics&region=stream&module=stream_unit&version=latest&contentPlacement=9&pgtype=collection

Friday, January 8, 2016

02.2016 Go Set A Watchman

Introduction:

Happy New Year!
To Kill A Mockingbird is an American classic and required reading for most high school freshman students. This month we read Harper Lee's most recent book, a sequel to the classic.

Overview:

"Maycomb, Alabama. Twenty-six-year-old Jean Louise Finch—"Scout"—returns home from New York City to visit her aging father, Atticus. Set against the backdrop of the civil rights tensions and political turmoil that were transforming the South, Jean Louise's homecoming turns bittersweet when she learns disturbing truths about her close-knit family, the town, and the people dearest to her. Memories from her childhood flood back, and her values and assumptions are thrown into doubt. Featuring many of the iconic characters from To Kill a Mockingbird, Go Set a Watchman perfectly captures a young woman, and a world, in painful yet necessary transition out of the illusions of the past—a journey that can only be guided by one's own conscience."

Book Details:

Paperback: 288 pages
Publisher: Harper; First Edition edition (July 14, 2015)
ISBN-10: 0062409859
ISBN-13: 978-0062409850

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Thursday, January 7, 2016

Kitchen Confidential: Adventures in the Culinary Underbelly

Book Club #9.
Lesson: Be careful what and where you eat.

About the Book:

Kitchen Confidential: Adventures in the Culinary Underbelly

 

 Summary: 

Anthony Bourdain shares his initiation and experiences in the underbelly of the food industry as a culinary school graduate and eventually head chef. There is order and chaos in kitchen, industry secrets, and a wide variety of characters.

 

Characters:

  • Anthony Bourdain
  • BigFoot - mentor
  • fellow workers

Questions:

1. Have you ever worked in the restaurant industry? If yes, in what capacity and was your experience reflected in the book?
2. Bourdain described his kitchen as a loud, lewd environment whereas he later visited another kitchen that was very quiet and had a woman in a higher kitchen position. Reality shows often depict head chefs as loud, angry, dictator types like Gordon Ramsey. Do you think this is a result of Bourdain, reflective of chef personalities, or simply for entertaining television? What do you think is the personality of most kitchens?
3. What do you think it takes to work in the professional food industry?
4. If you were to start a restaurant or food-related business, what would it be?
5. What advice from the book do you plan on implementing in your life? Do you plan on changing any of your dining habits after reading this book? What would you change?
6. Bourdain had a life-changing trip to Japan. Have you had a travel experience that had a great impact on your view of food or was particularly memorable for culinary reasons?
7. What did you feel was most compelling or memorable about the book? What did the author do that made it particularly memorable?
8. Anthony Bourdain describes lots of memorable characters in the book, then mentions them again at the end of the book. Who seemed most interesting to you?
9. Do you think it would be possible to succeed in the restaurant business without caffeine or drugs? They seemed like a big part of the restaurant culture.
 

Conversation Summary:

Discussion topics:
  • running a kitchen and working a tough, time-sensitive industry like the culinary world takes a particular personality
  • fans of bigfoot - establishing relationships with vendors, kitchen setup, efficiency
  • changes to eating habits - no fish on Sunday, bread, eggs benedict
  • stories from people who worked in the food industry
  • signs of a bad restaurant - bathroom unclean, wide focus, changing menus, management turnover, etc.
  • kitchen disasters and restaurant turnovers
  • favorite food adventures and experiences
  • well-written, bourdain has a easy-to-read and poetic writing style
  • bourdain's media/celebrity climb

3/3 bears finished book and 3/3 loved it

References:

1. Anthony Bourdain tv shows: No Reservations, Layover, Parts Unknown